1. Transportation. I don't think you can picture a matatu until you ride one, but I will describe as best I can. There are hundreds of these vans that ride up and down the streets of Kenya. And they all appear full, all the time. But no...They will manage to squeeze you in and if no seats are available, don't worry, a wooden board is placed in the aisle just for you. Then when you're ready to stop, you simply knock on the ceiling of the van and the driver pulls over. I look like a deer in the headlights every time I ride one.
2. Shopping. (Disclaimer: This is coming from a girl who throughly enjoys browsing the aisles of Fresh Market at Renaissance Mall). The Kenyan market-- Hundreds of vendors are covering a certain area and all seem to be selling the same items. Yes, there are many fruits and vegetables options; however, 20 women in a row are all selling pineapple. So you have to choose quickly and not be afraid to negotiate the price. Something I have realized I am terrible at doing. Grocery shopping is not a leisurely experience, but it is definitely much more interesting.
3. Greetings. In America, you can easily slip into a room once a meeting has started or simply wave hello when you enter someone's home. Not so in Kenya. When you arrive anywhere, you greet everyone in the room either with a handshake or a kiss on the cheek. You say "hello, how are you?" to each person individually. Also, when you enter someone's home, you take off your shoes. Hm, I don't think I've ever been barefoot at a dinner party at home.
4. Hospitality. In Kenya, it is very, very common to just "pop in" anytime. No really, anytime. When you do have a visitor, you offer chai (tea) and bread, or if near a mealtime, you serve your visitor whatever you're having. And if you were on your way out the door when someone shows up, your plans change and you invite them in. It's great--your day revolves around relationships and not a schedule.
Just a few differences that bring a smile to my face:)
I am laughing at the thought of you knocking on the ceiling of the matutu or haggling over a pineapple. I cannot wait to sit with you and hear you talk about it in person. I have a feeling much laughter and a few tears will flow...
ReplyDeleteA late comment (do you expect any less from me?), but I love what you said about hospitality! How encouraging for someone to drop their plans and take time for a visitor. What a challenge and reminder for us to be willing and joyful to do the same!
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